Links that I love

 

We had some warmer weather here this week but now it's back to being coldish.  I'd like to see more 60's and 70's please.  For those celebrating Easter, I hope that you have a nice holiday!  I am working through the flu currently.  It hit me hard Monday into Tuesday. 

• This emotion seems to play a big role in addiction.
• Study further identifies estrogen's positive3 effects on women's health.
• Three habits to help with stress management - these make sense. 
• These real life women inspired Disney Princesses.
• Anthony Palmini and narrating romantasy audiobook.
• What we know about coffee's impact on the heart is wrong. 
• I may try this practice. 
• Which Disney Princess are you?
• Why do we say "hit the sack?" 
• What do palms symbolize on Palm Sunday?
• Tana French has a new book out.
• The 2026 shortlist for the International Booker Prize.
• Here's an easy looking recipe to try. 
• 5 discontinued easter chocolates that people want back. 
• I like big books and I cannot lie. 
• How addiction became a big motif in crime fiction. 
• Every state's favorite Easter candy.
• Takeaways from the men's tune up World Cup games. 
• 15 short nonfiction audiobooks that are 7 hours or less. 
• 12 dark revenge filled books if you're feeling ragey. 
• The finalists for this year's Lambda Literary Awards.
• For those of you interested in WW2, please check this out.
• This looks fantastic and I want to try!
• If you like Rebecca Yarros, try these books.  If you do ACOTAR, keep reading past the first book. They get better. Promise.
• How much sleep do you really need and is getting too much sleep a bad thing?
• The story behind alpine divorce.

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REVIEW I Wish You All the Best by Mason Deaver

 

This book satisfies two of my challenges: the Popsugar Challenge (book where there is a non binary or trans main character) and the Library Love challenge.  I loved this book and I loved that this was the sort of book that Mason Deaver needed when they were a teenager.  So wonderful for me too.  I feel like I learned a lot. The literary world is so much better because this book is here.

I knew that I would love this book when it made me cry in the first few chapters.  It is absolutely nightmarish but not in your face or over the top and it was that subtleness that really got me. Ben DeBecker has been kicked out of his home at Christmas time after coming out to his conservative parents about being non-binary.  He luckily is able to call his older sister, Hannah, who is estranged and had left right after graduating from high school. She jumps into action and picks him up, gets him enrolled in school and gets him a (good) therapist. Ben spends the first part of the book in fear that they will be outed, rejected and have to return to the terrible environment that they were in previously. However, he has a lot of support and some bright lights - Mariam is a non binary social influencer that is very supportive of Ben and Nathan, a young man that Ben meets at his new school. 

This was a very compelling story that captured me and moved quickly. It is so effective in establishing that young, non-binary (or even anyone that has a sexual or gender orientation that is different from what the dominant society says is "normal,") are always experiencing a baseline level of fear and stress - nothing is ever seemingly safe in their world. Every word, action and look is second guessed.  Are they going to be outed? Is the person that learns of their gender or sexual expression going to accept them or be violent or something in between? What would be considered normal questions, are not necessarily normal questions to Ben - they are still trying to figure themselves out and then they have to figure out the world around them, all the while being a teen. 

When I put this book down, I felt much more emotionally and intellectually intelligent. I learned about the non-binary landscape all the while enlightening me on an experience that I never had and helping me to have compassion for people that are going through these difficult transitions in their own lives. I adored this book and would recommend it highly. 

REVIEW: Vladimir by Julia May Jonas

 

Not going to lie, I've had this book forever but I only started reading it because Netflix has released a limited series. THe first line was so promising: " When I was a child, I loved old men and I could tell that they also loved me."

And that legitimately sets the tone for the rest of the novel. The narrator and main character is a female professor in her late 50's at a small liberal arts college in upstate NY. She has a crisis when her older husband, also a professor, is accused of sexual harassment and improper relationships (many of them sexually consummated) by former students of his.  They have always had agreements about boundaries in their relationships but now that everything is so public, the narrator gets her revenge by developing an infatuation with another much younger professor - Vladimir. He's a wildly successful, young and attractive novelist that arrives on campus with his wife and their child. 

I generally enjoyed how the novel started - it was so promising. I enjoyed seeing an older woman embrace her sexuality and who she was.  Her creativity started to blossom after her infatuation started. And I really appreciated how it took on things like relationships - the narrator and her husband seem the most solid even though their boundaries may be questionable, but the gender roles in the relationship are still so strict. She has his dinner on the table for him. Every night. No matter what.  He took care of all the finances. But then we got the last third of the book and things just went completely off the rails in a way that I just couldn't get behind. I honestly wondered if the author felt like me - and just wanted to get to the end of the book in a rush and so ended it the way that she did. 

Not my cup of tea, this one.  Pass on it - you're not missing anything. 

Links I love

 

Last week had a lot going on for me work wise and life wise. At least I have some fun links to share though! I'm listening to Future Boy by Michael J. Fox and reading I Wish You all the Best by  Mason Deaver and The Academy. 

• Memoirs about losing a parent when in childhood.
• The Bell Jar is getting an adaptation with Billie Eilish. There's an adaptation of Tomorrow, and Tomorrow and Tomorrow too!
• This supplement can help in perimenopause.
• What is the Kennedy curse?
• 6 female writers that shaped modern science fiction.
• Why you should consider holding hands during your next fight?
• Morning might be the best time to exercise.
• Ten best books to read with interesting female protagonists. 
• Microwalks and your steps.
• 9 Novels about women in the wild. 
• Because who doesn't need a new podcast to listen to?
• Why readers are taking up Grannycrafts.
• Historical novels set in South Africa.
• The winners of the National Book Critics Circle Awards have been announced. 
• Bridgerton's diversity - what's up with it?
• Cursive is back, but should students be learning it?
• The Inside Literary Prize announces its shortlist. 
• Lift your weights, especially if you're female. 
• 8 coastal cities that look divine. 
• Emotional abuse in college sports.

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REVIEW A Court of Frost and Starlight by Sarah Maas

 

I read this physical book, did not listen to it.  I tend to find listening to non fiction is easier than reading it in some circumstances!  

This book is short for an ACOTAR book, and is a nice respite from the heavier, longer and more action packed other novels in this series. Feyre and Rhys have returned to Velaris to prepare for and celebrate solstice, which is also Feyre's birthday. Everyone is also trying to come to terms with what they had experienced in the prior novel. Most are coping well, except for Nesta, who is a hot mess, seemingly an alcoholic and is having a hard time moving forward. 

I enjoyed this novella. It's like a larger epilogue to the last novel, clears the palate and gets us ready for the next novel. It moved very quickly and was very refreshing - exactly what I needed in the moment that I picked it up. I enjoyed learning about the characters' everyday lives and their everyday struggles.  I also became much more fond of Azriel and Mor, who are hands down my favorite ACOTAR characters. I appreciated how Maas seems to be setting up the next novel, particularly in her chapters surrounding Nesta and Cassian (not going to lie, I'm not a fan of Nesta. At all.). Maas uses alternating points of view in this book, which is different from the prior novels and which was VERY effective in setting up the next book.  It's nice to get to know the other characters in the Inner Circle as well, which isn't something that happens as well when the story is told just from one point of view. 

Generally, I really liked this book. The ACOTAR books seem to get better with each book and I'm looking forward to the next book, as well as the ACOTAR books that are set to be released at the end of the year.

REVIEW The Peculiar Garden of Harriet Hunt by Chelsea Iverson

 

I selected this book to fulfill one of the prompts for the Popsugar Reading challenge of 2026 - which called for one of the books to have a garden playing a seminal role in the novel.  I didn't want to re-read The Secret Garden, so here we are.

Harriet has always been considered odd.  Her father has gone missing and so she ultimately takes advantage of the newfound and unexpected freedom afforded to her by his disappearance. She forges her own path, by hanging out in her own home and tending to her garden. However, when an inspector appears and begins to question her father's disappearance, she becomes acutely aware of how truly vulnerable that she as a woman in the Victorian era is. She puts her trust in people that perhaps she shouldn't have and here we have the conundrum: being caught and trying to solve a mystery.

There's a lot of mystery to cover - what happened to her dad and mom, why a strange man is courting her and what happens to her. The mysteries move very, very slowly in unfolding. I found it to move almost so slowly that I was losing interest. And then we have the answers explode in one very big explosion at the end of the book and by the time that this happened, I honestly didn't care at all. I had lost so much interest and didn't care. The garden was such an instrumental part of the book, but I never really fully understood why and wanted more of an explanation. 

Not a great read and I was happy when I was done.  On to the next!

Links I love

I'm so looking forward to the longer days and warmer weather. And Tulips. I love tulips.

•  Can you name all the sitcom dads?
• What causes spontaneous human combustion?
• Modern day Thelmas and Louise in crime fiction.
• The scandalous story of Lucy Locket.
• What was being a ninja really like?
• Resources for learning about different topics.
• How John Grisham lost his love of baseball. 
• Peanut butter vs almond butter: is one better than the other?
• This years GS cookies, ranked. 
• Finalists for the Lambda Literary awards.
• I love me some True Crime and  these look good. Some of these look pretty good too. 
• This Roman fort was found...in Scotland?!
• Lemon peels...in the sink?
• Some bone healthy foods that no one talks about.
• 6 random facts about the spring equinox.
• Why do airplanes have tiny windows?

I hope that everyone has a great week!  Please don't forget that I have a Pangobooks store that you should check out!